Be Grateful

It is always rewarding to chat with different friends, to get to know how they see things. For the same incident, we perceive differently.

You used your hard earn money to provide the best environment for your children... now they have grown up, holding several degrees from respectable Universities. And yet, the gap between is enlarging by each step they go forward.

They speak another language that make no sense to you; they adopt another culture that with contradicting values with your own; their ideas seem ridculous to you... they have advanced, excelled and have a better life than youself, but you cannot understand them any more.

At times, or many times, we feel we are much better than our parents in all ways. We can master computer, we speak English, we earn more... but let's go back, it is them who pick the schools, it is them who urge us to study, it is them to provide the necessities for our current success. Be grateful, please.

Merry Christmas 2005

My personalized Christmas Gift.

Champagne

My new boss treated us these Champagne. Taste so good. I have mentioned to him that 3 bottles for 8 people are just.... not enough. He agreed absolutely and promised to prepare sufficient Champagne for the New Year Celebration.

p.s. Veuve (in French) = Widow

Love

What do you think about Love now?
Was it different from your pervious views / belief?

I have not been discussing this topic for a long time, lack of suitable companion is the main reason. It is not necessary to discuss this with your partner, you only have to experience it with him/her.

Think For Myself

A comment has been shot to me, I should start thinking for myself. Not that I have not been thinking it before, my consideration always takes others into account.

I take this as a good personality trait, but it cannot be overdone...

Subconscious

Main Entry: 1sub·con·scious
Pronunciation: "s&b-'kän(t)-sh&s, 's&b-
Function: adjective
: existing in the mind but not immediately available to consciousness

Listened to my thoughts word by word from another's mouth is a strange feeling, as if I was detached from my body and looking at myself as a third person.

Speak of what you said is my own ideas is an unfair act. I am sure I have spoken nearly the exact lines to you, maybe you have agreed and these ideas creeped behind your mind since then. Maybe it has entered your subconsciousness... how many of your ideas have become my subconsciousness without myself knowing it?

Favourite Scene

The mingled ten years love and hate are plainly displayed, love has been expressed, revenge has been taken, everything is melt down and disappeared like a snowflake...

It is as simple as this, we want reassurance... at the moment that one is/was deeply in love, whether the other is/was the same... we just want to know, that's all.