Passed Away

My grandpa has been passed away for nearly 10 months, at times I would blame myself for not thinking of him more often, at time I would cry my eyes out at the thought of him. Yet these are just self consolations to make myself feel better.

The significance of his departure made me realize my weakness in loving & caring of others. We are all stupid human beings, we are unable to capture each others' brainwave without speaking / acting what we feel / want.

Chatting with siblings / parents / grandparents is sometimes boring, but you will soon find out that they just want you to listen. They will gossip about relatives, brag on their achievements and reminisce the past... it isn't a difficult task to be a listener. When you see their animated faces and contented smiles, nothing really matters anymore.

If your loved one has set off his/her way to heaven, refocus your attention to those around, and keep the deceased at heart.